How to detach yourself and stop depending on someone emotionally?
Have you ever felt yourself
Have you ever felt yourself emotionally detach yourself from everything??
Have you ever been so disappointed in someone that you forgive them
immediately but in your mind, you’ve already detached yourself from
Have you ever been so disappointed
It ‘sIt’s the best deal!
Some people aren’t worth the energy you give.
Have you ever been so disappointed with someone’s behavior that you forgive them and don’t say anything? But in your head, you detach yourself from them completely.
Make yourself happy
Become independent and always remember you are the only person
responsible for making yourself happy
Everybody, this is important! Up pointing index
You don’t “lose” people when you start standing up for yourself;
you elevate, and as a result, detach yourself from people who enjoyed
walking all over you.
This journey is all about faith. The more confidence you have, the more blessings
you can receive. Your manifestations are being blocked by your
unwillingness to trust in yourself and your spiritual team.
Remember that divine timing is hugely different from
our own timing Downwards arrow.
As soon as you learn to detach and focus on yourself and your soul
mission, you will be surprised. You are always protected and happy; what is meant for you can never be taken away.
Detach yourself from your ego
Your fate lies in your own hands; only you have the power to bring
these miracles about. If you can detach yourself from your ego (the idea of you), you can become immune to critics and negativity, Smiling face with three hearts Sparkles.
Forget about needing to be right and be! This will keep you so calm,
relaxed, beautiful, and healthy. You’ll become magnetic Magnet
once you understand this you will become a better person
for yourself and less emotionally independent from people …
Take time for yourself.
One way to do this is to take time for yourself. And be away from anyone
who you think you depend on too much to make you happy
until you can figure out what are all the things that’s makes you happy
when you are on your own, it takes time and a lot of will power
but you can do it.
Start loving yourself
Start loving yourself more than anyone else
and what if we value someone more than ourselves?
Start by guarding your thoughts and proactively stopping yourself
from thinking of the person.
It takes time, but it worked.
It easy if someone can do it.
It’s all about priorities.
Yourself always should be in top priority.
Just make a list or your relationship (family, relatives, and friends, etc.)
post them respectively as a priority.
Erase people who hurt you
Erase people who hurt you the most respected.
In last you will find yourself and your family who don’t hurt you.
Then start changing your priorities.
If you don’t want to be hurt, you will start depending on someone else.
Just right down the hurting moment made by the person, you depend upon.
Everyone knows, expectations hurt and spoil.
Start to work on yourself slowly.
Therapy, self-help books, etc.
(I started going to co decency meetings).
That’s what helped the most.
Example of Staying with someone emotionally
Staying with someone emotionally is like a stapler pin
Easy to attach, hard to detach
The worst thing about emotions precisely like a stapler pin is that
when finally separate, it leaves the spot damage.
Start Writing Diary
But it easy for those with that can control their soul
Self-pity is sometimes the cause.
You suppressed your self something is hurting you unconsciously.
Take a dairy to write there your thoughts and incidents randomly and then burn it or share
with whom you trust, release yourself.
Detach yourself from this Dunya
Start making decisions by yourself and face the challenges.
My reminder; detach yourself from this Dunya it isn’t worth it, I seclude
myself to worship Allah, why? Because I remind myself that this is what
we will end up in, no one with you, no money, none of that
designer clothing, no family&friends. Just you & your needs.
A man came to the Prophet and said: “O Messenger(saw) of God,
direct me to an act, which if I do, God will love me and other people will love me.”
He(saw said: “Detach yourself from the planet, and God will love you.
Love for the deen and respect for the Dunya cannot coexist in one’s heart.
What you attach to your heart is what you will follow.
Detach yourself from what’s with the people, and therefore the people will love you.”
Try to avoid this at the start cause once you’re totally
into someone emotionally, there’s no way back